Since
you are like no other being ever created since the beginning of time, you are
incomparable.
– Brenda Ueland
How is our story told? Sometimes, the only
opportunity we have is through an inch-high notice in the newspaper – an
obituary – which may be written during the throes of grief by our families.
Writing your own obituary
can be difficult. After all, it’s “The Last Hurrah” and, for most of us, may be
the only time we’re mentioned in the newspaper. Do you really want it to be
nothing more than your birth and death date, funeral arrangements and names of
close family?
Imagine if you could tell your own story. If you
could:
Ø have
the opportunity to say what you want to say about yourself.
Ø include
items that your family may not be aware of or have forgotten.
Ø alleviate
some of the stress of your death for your family.
Ø have
your wishes honored.
Ø exhibit
your personality instead of a resume.
Ø leave
a lasting legacy for your descendants.
How do you write an obituary? By creating a
document that reflects who you really are. Here are four tips to get you started: